Tuesday, August 17, 2010

I'm Through

There comes a time when you just feel that enough is enough. You have emotions and feelings bottled up and sometimes it's just hard to let stuff go. You want to find the right outlet to express yourself but in this life that can be a difficult process. We drown in the disappointment of others because they turn out to be the complete opposite of what we thought. The stresses that's caused by others play a huge part in just letting stuff go. We make huge mistakes by letting the wrong people in our lives and sharing personal interests because we become blinded by other aspects of them. We find out in the long run that they were just a lesson that needed to be learned. They turn out to be someone that was not meant to be a long term companion. 

We as people get confused about who we decide to call our friends for the simple fact that we may not have many or any at all. Choosing wisely about who let into our doors is the true key. The wrong people with the right ammunition can be a deadly thing. For that reason is why we must no longer put up with it. We cannot let that said person be in control of how we decide to live our life. When we begin to show fear and walk on eggshells we give that person the upper hand and we lose site of what we truly hold and that's the strength to finally walk away. 

Should we turn and run away from our problems fully? No but, it comes a time when you have had enough of the negativity and you just have to put away the bull. We all play the fool sometimes but we must not make it a recurring role in this sitcom we call life. Sometimes all we have to do is throw our hands up and say "I'm through". In the end I'm just saying...  

1 comment:

  1. You are exactly right. We can't allow ourselves to settle on decisions, especially when it comes to people we let in our lives. I've made that mistake a time or two, but it was from unforeseen characteristics of the person. "Choosing wisely about who let into our doors is the true key." That is so true. Sometimes I'm told that I'm "too picky" or "bougie" because I choose to keep the people in my life to a minimal...I don't do this because I'm antisocial or other things, it just keeps the stress down. (As we both know) lol
    I say people should stop being so lenient about things they notice their "friends" doing that they don't approve of.

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